Always be someone that can be trusted.

Whether it's with a secret or if someone is depending on you for something that is important to them. 

Be that person that is true to their word.  Someone that others can instill their confidence it. 


It make you feel good to be that person....



        And if you have a devilish side....or if you're a bit cynical....look at it this way.  

                    You'll learn all their secrets...which always gives you leverage.
                
                                            ....and leverage is always the upper hand.



But concentrate on the good....You will feel good that people feel they can trust you.  You're dependability will be something that they will cherish, and if you're lucky that kind of behavior will rub off on them.